A Definition
Crisis is a perception of an event or situation as an intolerable difficulty that exceeds the person's resources and coping mechanisms (Gilliland and James, 1997)
A conceptual model for understanding tragedy and pain
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CHANGE (Tragedy)--------------LOSS-------------PAIN--------------Stress (perception) (resistance) (anticipation)
Crisis Counseling differs from other forms of counseling in the following terms:
1. Primary goal to restore the client to equilibrium (may be brief)
2. A second goal of taking action (may be directive and allow temporary client dependency)
3. The counselor takes more active role in giving information and teaching coping strategies
1. Remove distractors and other stressors
2. Avoid impulsive action
3. Delegate authority
4. Model calmness
5. Be prepared
Crisis Intervention Principles
1. Begin counseling immediately
2. Be concerned and competent
3. Listen to the facts of the situation
4. Reflect the individuals feelings
5. Help the child realize that the crisis event has occurred
6. Do not encourage or support blaming
7. Do not give false reassurance
8. Recognize the primacy of taking action
1. Defining the Problem
2. Ensuring Client Safety
3. Providing Support
4. Examing Alternatives
5. Making Plans
6. Obtaining Commitment
Crisis Counseling the Children: Don'ts and Dos
Do Not:
* underestimate children's' ability to feel like adults
DO
* Let the young children know they are not alone. I am here for you and with you." to balance the magical and ego-centered thinking and restore some sense of control through outside help
* watch for their physical reactions/symptoms
* communicate creatively (body, tone, eye, touch, play, art, music, etc.)
* understand the children's immature, self centered ways of thinking
* Permit the children to confront (face) losses.
Tips for parents
* try all of the above
* Help your child understand what happened
* Talk with the child about the damages, deaths, and traumatic reactions she/her witnessed or sees in TV
* accept and teach your child express feelings
* listen to your children if he/she shares concerns of her/his peers in the classroom or school.
* keep lines of communication open with your child-even when it is difficult.
* Be involved in your child's school life and understand/request appropriate supports offered by the school and teachers
* work with your child's school to make it more responsive to students in a time of rehabilitation.
* volunteer to work with school based support groups concerned about the adjustments
* find out what is available in your community for psychological help
* talk with the parents of your child's friends. Discuss how you could form a team to mutually support the children.
* be aware when you need to seek help for your self
Tips for the students who have new students in their class due to the earthquake
* work with teachers and make the classroom an "warm home" to welcome the new students
* listen to your them if they share troubling feelings or thoughts. Encourage them to talk to teachers and counselors.
* volunteer to be a helper for the new students (tutoring the school works the new student has missed in the past weeks, ease their homesickness if they are away from home and their parents)
* express care, warmth and love for the new students. Be careful about asking too many questions about their sad situations, teasing and intimidating them
Tips for training school personnel (for both counselors and non counselors)
* Provide a written small pamphlet to inform them about the do's and don'ts in responding the children needs
* provide in-service to help them deal with their reactions and coping
* Provide training to better help the children survivors for re-entering the school environment
* For junior high and high schools, training on watching early singes of suicide
* establish a referral resources in the immediate community